Many of us might be hosting a Thanksgiving away from our nanny families, one for our playgroups, our friends or assisting in your nanny families’ Thanksgiving. Here are some fun ways to make guests feel welcomed not only at Thanksgiving but any holiday or visit.
It’s your turn to host Thanksgiving dinner—will it be one of the most memorable holidays you and you’re family have ever experienced or will it be a complete turkey? Whether it’s your first time having everyone over for the holidays or you’re a pro at playing host or hostess, it’s all about planning. Martha Stewart and your mother-in-law may make it look effortless, but entertaining during the holidays is about anticipating your guests’ needs, staying organized and finding the time to have plenty of fun yourself.
Keep It Cozy
There’s nothing like company coming to make you notice every flaw in your home. Instead of obsessing about what’s wrong, highlight what’s beautiful. Take time to clean your home thoroughly with special attention to the guest room and guest bath. Scent makes guests feel welcome, and House Beautiful suggests burning rosemary twigs in a cast-iron pan to make the entire house smell clean and holiday-ish before guests arrive.
Keep Them Busy
One of a host’s biggest challenges is keeping overnight guests entertained while whipping up a turkey dinner from scratch. Help guests entertain themselves by providing a welcome package that includes a house key (so they can come and go as they like), public transportation passes (if they need them) and route maps, local newspapers and magazines and admission tickets to at least one event you know they’ll enjoy. A nicely presented welcome package that’s tailored to their interests is a thoughtful gesture.
Keep It Festive
Have a selection of holiday music available for guests to enjoy. Keep CDs within easy reach and leave written directions for how to use the stereo or find Pandora music station online when you’re not there. Mix up some special alcohol-free beverages to keep in the refrigerator to make guests feel spoiled. Even something as simple as a pitcher of sparkling water with oranges slices and fresh cranberries in it will make guests feel well cared for.
When it comes to holiday décor, less is more, especially at Thanksgiving. A beautiful fall centerpiece, some autumnal candles placed about and a seasonal wreath on the door is enough to make your home feel warm and inviting. Check out Pinterest for ideas on fall decorating or visit your local craft store where you can buy supplies or an already completed centerpiece.
Make Some Memories
Don’t get so busy playing hostess that you forget to make great holiday memories with your friends and family. While the gang’s all here is a perfect time to pose for a family portrait, and then you can use the photo to print cards for Christmas on minted.com. Gather the little kids and have them make homemade Christmas ornaments, or hold a family scavenger hunt. For a more relaxing afternoon, stay home and ask the eldest family member to share some of his/her favorite stories about the family’s history.